Personal Thoughts

Positions (and the Sounds of Sex) – A Perspective

I’ve liked most every different position I’ve ever experienced… and are there many more left to try? You tell me!

But seriously, for me there’s nothing better than the feel of ankles entwined behind my back (or placed on my shoulders, or even held uncontrollably in mid-air) as I thrust my hips between two sexy, beautiful thighs. I love the feel of splitting a women’s thighs with my body, trying to embed my entire self within her. That irreplaceable feeling of our hips practically merging with each thrust, no matter if fast or slow.

I’m not a screamer, but it amazes me how many people are practically silent when having sex. Given, there are always situations where you need to be furtive as far as the sounds you’re able to emit, but I think we often forget to switch out of this mode when our silence is not required.

I like to communicate, especially when I am poised between two luscious thighs, starting to lose control. When I’m about to come, I like to make it verbally clear, even though my body is betraying this secret through its own obvious response. I find verbal responsiveness often turns my partners on even more… then, when I see this added excitement in their eyes, it takes me to new realms in return. When it comes to my partners’ own verbal expression, everything from moans and feedback to dirty talk excite me to no end.

Sometimes I wonder if we may progress through so many positions in one session to “check the boxes”, rather than just focusing on the one or two positions that are really doing it for us at the time, and going with the flow. There’s nothing wrong with the pornstar experience, but when something is working for both (or all) of us, there’s nothing wrong with keeping the groove going.

Yes, I love to be ridden. I love to grab a partner’s hips and pound her during doggie-style. But that feeling of being enveloped by two warm thighs, trying my best to merge my entire body into hers is my favorite. Mixing it up, because you feel like it rather than the need to check a box is fine. But I know my favorite position. I’m a leg man, and a thigh man. And I love the sounds of sex.

PS-  When it comes to your verbal utterances, please don’t fake your moans, or the volume of your moans. It’s a turnoff. It’s better to give feedback, and direct the action to what you like, what you want… that half-an-inch movement that you may need in order to exclaim “Right there. Don’t stop”. Then, if you need to scream, go for it. Now that’s sexy.

 

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